tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post2950869095527624720..comments2023-10-16T09:16:54.565-07:00Comments on WAT CENTRAL -An existential wasteland: DON'T BURN THE QURAN!WAThttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06265139894543519211noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-32184851790668458562010-09-24T23:27:02.509-07:002010-09-24T23:27:02.509-07:00I think real romance is fleeting. It comes in mom...I think real romance is fleeting. It comes in moments, but there is no staying power, because life can be rude and hectic. I think a lasting relationship is first and foremost a good friendship. Sure there can be passion, and learning about each other is cool and novel at first. But once that has calmed down, it is possible to keeping hanging out with one person, if you really want it. And that means BOTH people have to really want it. It's not easy because our society is into easy solutions. And usually a relationship is not easy a lot of the time.<br /><br />I think the main reason I was able to stay married is because I really respected my husband. He has some admirable qualities that helped when I didn't like him very much. And the feelings drift in and out like cycles. It doesn't stay the same forever. I don't think it is easily explained and I'm obviously doing a poor job of it.<br /><br />I just know that if you want a lasting "something" with someone, you have to adjust your attitude about what it really is. We have been inundated with tv, novels, and movies where the couple solves their problems at the end of the hour and then they are happy. All better. It just isn't that simple.alicenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-40079760485973397572010-09-14T14:36:30.701-07:002010-09-14T14:36:30.701-07:00..."I'm not 40 yet." Shut up. LOL
G......"I'm not 40 yet." Shut up. LOL<br /><br />Go get a tattoo and then go suck some dick. Jeesh. Mid-life crisis my ass. :)RGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12264363264956622352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-84561187760744399292010-09-12T11:57:59.969-07:002010-09-12T11:57:59.969-07:00Some heavy issues here. I am glad you ended with ...Some heavy issues here. I am glad you ended with a little Madonna to kinda even things out a bit. <br /><br />BTW, I revamped my blog (pop over) and put in a new links thingie but the URL to your blog will not go through. So I'll keep trying. I just wanted you to know that I have tried several times and did not overlook your blog when creating the list. xoGaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08715784900659276067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-3216868281886274172010-09-09T03:40:17.319-07:002010-09-09T03:40:17.319-07:00Well first of if you look at the idea of "rom...Well first of if you look at the idea of "romantic love" that our society is sold on it on shaky ground. Modern Romance is built on the idea "Chivalrous Love" aka Unrequited love. A concept developed and popularized in Spain. The while idea of living someone from afar (even if they are married) that you cannot have. It is an ideal state that borders on mania/philia/eros.<br /><br />Sadly our society is brainwashed to want this, and we are no longer patient and live in a disposable mindset. True Love sadly is a combination of Storge/Plantonic which endures and last forever, which most people do not want, becuase we are now taught to go for the shiny new superficial latest model.<br /><br />Btw.. as to your quote... by the Quran.... and burn the bible. Both religions are self righteous and sickening. Sad to say Christianity has killed and damned more people than anything(not just Catholics, protestants are just if not more evil in their zeal). Christ true message has been so twisted by the simple-minded mob mentality, that all true purpose is lost in an attempt for control and profit.<br /><br />Don't give up hope. Change youself. Your intelligent and know better, stop doing things that you "want" and do things that you "need". If I one can sum up the difference between childhood/adulthood it is want/need. As homosexuals we can no longer live in a twisted version of the Peter Pan syndrome.Conclave27https://www.blogger.com/profile/13892666053832920927noreply@blogger.com