tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post4801267856223897432..comments2023-10-16T09:16:54.565-07:00Comments on WAT CENTRAL -An existential wasteland: "WHEN YOU WERE YOUNG AND YOUR HEART, WAS AN OPEN BOOK..."WAThttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06265139894543519211noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-20929179505578181482010-04-06T08:44:37.190-07:002010-04-06T08:44:37.190-07:00Sorry to hear about HIM being such a jerk. There ...Sorry to hear about HIM being such a jerk. There are plenty of them around and, I hope, the right one for you in the near future.LadrĂ³n de Basura (a.k.a. Junk Thief)https://www.blogger.com/profile/13051974174001458812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-61245864984734578802010-04-06T02:34:06.332-07:002010-04-06T02:34:06.332-07:00I lose my internet connection for three months and...I lose my internet connection for three months and all hell breaks loose!<br /><br />I'll tell you what, you can hold my purse while I fuck him up? Deal?RGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12264363264956622352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-64848299835566846682010-04-04T17:29:58.463-07:002010-04-04T17:29:58.463-07:00Okay, maybe he is a terrible person.
I wish you w...Okay, maybe he is a terrible person.<br /><br />I wish you were closer so we could hang out and I could try to ease your pain a bit.Garyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08715784900659276067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-81973239911297047352010-04-03T17:42:50.451-07:002010-04-03T17:42:50.451-07:00Gary: I may be hurt, but speaking as objectively a...Gary: I may be hurt, but speaking as objectively as possible, he IS a terrible person. The things said, the behavior, and exploitation of the situation was damaging to me. I know I am not without fault or my own responsibility, but I do believe his narcissism is deep and destructive.WAThttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06265139894543519211noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-34538027747249811372010-04-03T17:30:29.398-07:002010-04-03T17:30:29.398-07:00Wat - what a clever reader you have here in Alice....Wat - what a clever reader you have here in Alice. Of course I agree with her. There is nothing like the pain of a broken heart, especially if you have the time to wallow in the misery. I have been there. And on the one hand it is fantastic to be in the thick and mess of life, deeply feeling, totally alive. On the other, it is miserable and painful. That makes the moments like the concert all the more meaningful. Be kind to yourself and remember that you are in control only of what you are feeling, your journey. He is on his own journey and the two weren't meant to be. It does not make him a terrible person.Garyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08715784900659276067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7685350.post-57244982832406852932010-04-03T16:30:49.350-07:002010-04-03T16:30:49.350-07:00Maybe I could offer a little insight as to why you...Maybe I could offer a little insight as to why your broken heart pain is a little more acute now. In the week prior, you had the wonderful concert to anticipate - which was huge, considering what a Beatle fan you are. (Like me!!) And that distraction gave you some help in not focusing on the loss of the relationship so much. Once the concert was over, it's a little like the day after Christmas. There is a let down - almost a sadness - that now you have nothing to look forward to. So you feel vulnerable, and more prone to experience the pain that was just waiting to strike.<br /><br />Getting over someone you have fallen in love with is a very complicated process. Your ability to deal with it sooooooo depends on the attitude and input of the day. And, there is a roller coaster of emotions. Sometimes there is anger, and you can feel stronger and say f@#& that asshole. But other days, you can feel lost and without hope. Please believe that the down days will lessen with time. Try to stay as distracted as you can, until you are allowed the space to heal. Hugs coming your way....alicenoreply@blogger.com